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What the AIDS crisis stole from Black gay men
In 2016, I shared my HIV status publicly for the first time. It was imperative that if I were leading and serving a community of Black queer men, I be transparent about my status. It was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done, and one of the most rewarding.